BFP’s Ultimate Gift Guide

by Tana Hoban. Really simple, high-contrast book that was an absolute favorite in the newborn phase. Before they develop the ability to clearly see colors, babies are drawn to high-contrast black and white images.

This is the perfect little teether for newborns and infants. It’s easy to grip and has a very soothing shape. Perfect for picky babies, like Sebastian!

This is the first book that Shanna bought for her first daughter when she was a newborn. The high-contrast, black-and-white images are fun for the littlest babies to stare at.

Laura’s mother in law got this cute little jellyfish shaker as a gift and it was a hit! When you rattle the shaker, it plays soft classical music and lights up, allowing newborns and infants to experience cause and effect, but it isn’t annoying!

The perfect toy for little hands — this doubles as a teether and a rattle! This is an absolute favorite for newborns and infants and should be a must-have for every new baby!

If your baby is having trouble with tummy time, this mirror can help! It has high-contrast designs, is soft and safe, and can be propped up right next to the baby so they can check themselves out during tummy time!

This soft, comfy soothie holder is a favorite among new parents for soothing their little ones.

This puzzle mat is a cheaper (and adorable) alternative to the Baby Care playmat.

Sophie is a beloved classic for good reason! She has a soft texture, a pleasing squeak and is perfect for teething.

An activity play mat is perfect for newborns and infants to keep them entertained during tummy time. This Baby Einstein 4-in-1 activiy play gym has a kick-and-play piano, multi-sensory toys and more to occupy little ones while they are on their tummies, on their backs or in a sitting position.

Very simple but effective bouncer that babies love! You can dock your baby in this bouncer starting at 8 pounds, and let them enjoy how their own body movement gently sways the bouncer. Laura was able to get a lot of housework done while her baby happily bounced away in this thing.

These teether keys can be tossed in the fridge so baby can teeth on something textured and cold.

These cups are a fun addition to the bath! They have holes in the bottom that can sprinkle water. Outside the tub, they can be stacked or nested.

This is the perfect little teether for newborns and infants. It’s easy to grip and has a very soothing shape. Perfect for picky babies, like Sebastian!

These translucent juggling and play scarves are great for sensory development, songtime, and playing peekaboo with your baby. You can stuff them into a box and learn about object permanence, drape them over the baby’s head to their neverending delight, and throw them into the air to see them flutter to the ground.

Shanna’s daughters loved this snuggly sensory toy with high-contrast colors, crinkly wings and hidden mirror.

We love this adorable book with soft pages and adorable animals hidden behind crinkly flaps.

If you’re going to have the best bubble machine, you should have the best bubble solution! It’s a little pricey, but this makes the best bubbles that don’t sting little one’s eyes and don’t stain! Can even be used indoors (though it might get slippery on hardwood.) We buy this stuff in bulk!

Shanna’s baby received this subscription when she was a baby and is still enjoying it today. It has cute rhymes, stories, songs and pictures.

This thing is a bubble MACHINE, if you catch my drift. Bubbles for daaaaaays.

Laura’s absolute favorite baby jammies! These super-soft pajamas come in the cutest designs and even have matching versions for the whole family. And they’re stretchy, so they last a lot longer than most baby clothes!

This is a great toy that will keep your baby’s interest for months, possibly years! It starts as a toy you can explore on the floor, then converts into a push toy that helps early walkers explore while having fun. It’s still keeping Laura’s toddler entertained at almost 2 years old!

One of Shanna’s top pick for babies is a music table. Her babies loved using it to pull to stand, and enjoyed all the musical features.

This fun push toy is a blast for infants and toddlers to ride and bounce on, inside or outside!

Nothing is cuter than a little baby in a tiny toy car. Use this to push your baby around town. We also love it because it grows with baby and can be used by toddlers and preschoolers alike!

These sleep bags are made of a buttery-soft bamboo rayon, and are super roomy so they last forever. They come in a variety of weights so your baby will be comfortable, no matter the weather.

Laura loved these cloud-soft sleep sacks for Sebastian. They’re 100% Organic Cotton with a poly-fil interior that is so cozy, maybe your baby will link their sleep cycles!

This is a really wonderful, sturdy wooden toy that grows with your baby! It’s a great option to help them learn to pull to stand, and toddlers continue to play with it as they learn letters and shapes!

This was a beloved item in both Shanna and Laura’s house. Their babies delighted in bouncing up and down while playing with the cute toys in front of them.

These interchangeable climbing blocks create the perfect mountains, valleys, obstacle courses and more for infants and toddlers to explore. Shanna and Laura both own this and can attest to its quality, versatility and fun-factor!

This cushy, attractive playmat is durable and easy to clean. It makes an ideal landing pad for infants and toddlers learning to stand, walk and climb.

What child doesn’t love sidewalk chalk? These chunky sticks are fantastic for little hands.

Really cool board book with lots of pages that all have cutouts and interesting flaps to explore.

These large blocks are perfect for small hands!

This artistic activity uses a brush and water only! It’s a creative project with no mess. Huzzah!

A wonderful first-birthday present, this toy truck is made from recycled plastic that’s free from PVC, phthalates, and BPA, and is dishwasher safe! We love everything Green Toys makes!

This magnetic doodle pad has been a big hit in Shanna’s house for years. Draw and erase. Do it over and over again. Such fun!

Toddlers and preschoolers will love using their play-doh with this creative baking kit. The oven “bakes” the muffins, cakes and pies — all made from play-doh!

Super cute play barn opens up so little ones can see eveyrthing going on inside! Laura’s toddler loves the little toy animals and farmer, and will spend a lot of independent play time with this adorable playset.

This inexpensive toy drone will avoid obstacles and fly just over your head. Auggie and Sebastian are absolutely enamored with it, and will chase the thing around, laughing hysterically, until it runs out of power.

Sometimes your kid just wants to pretend to be a grown up and clean the house! This classic clean-up set is just the right size for toddlers.

After your baby has aged out of “Hello” magazine, move on to “High Five.” It’s so fun!

This adorable slide folds up for easy storage, and is a major hit in Laura’s small house! It’s small enough for toddlers to navigate on their own, and allows them to climb and slide independently whether or not you have access to a yard or playground!

This thing is a bubble MACHINE, if you catch my drift. Bubbles for daaaaaays.

This large play set comes in three pieces that collapse down for easy storage. You can play with all the pieces or just one at a time. Laura’s toddler loves pretending he’s in a spaceship and crawling through the tunnel! You can also fill them up as a ballpit for extra fun!

A classic toy, Laura’s kids will spin on this all day, every day. It’s great for sensory-seeking kids who need to spin, and it’s endless fun.

These are giant cardboard building blocks that make big structures really fast. Young toddlers like them just as much as older preschoolers. Yes, it takes up a lot of space, but it’s worth it for the open-ended play it inspires!

A balance bike is a great introduction to bicycles for little ones. And it is so cute to see them on their tiny bikes!

A set of 3 great books for toddlers! Every page of the book has really neat cutouts that are interactive and fascinating for the little ones.

This little reading chair is so fun for little ones! Shanna will often catch her toddler sitting in the chair all by herself reading a book.

Shanna’s play kitchen has been well-loved by her two daughters, and continues to engage them with lots of pretend play.

Looking for a sensory activity that engages kids for long stretches of time? Get this kinetic sand! It’s not nearly as messy as regular sand and can easily be molded into sandcastles and more.

Shanna’s girls both have this affordable star projector in their rooms, and they have been going strong for a couple of years now.

The modern-day doodle pad, this is a tablet kids can scribble on that lights up wherever the pen draws. When they’re done with their art, they can clear the screen and start again.

This monthly subscription service sends children’s board books or picture books to your child every month. Shanna’s kids received this as a gift, and she was impressed by the quality and selection of books!

Don’t mind the off-brand logos, this set of capes and masks make Avengers out of any preschooler. These are a quick way to encourage imaginative and collaborative play.

Shanna’s girls love these chunky paint sticks for big art projects, like painting cardboard playouses.

Encourage the future vet in your life with this adorable set that Shanna’s kids adore.

Like bingo but with pictures! Shanna and her girls love playing this game together.

This kit comes with a wrecking ball crane, a dump truck and a bunch of our favorite sensory toy: kinetic sand! Laura’s boys love this kit and will play with it for ages.

Kids can color and decorate these adorable figurines, scrub them clean in the bathtub that comes with the set and then start all over again!

Want to surprise your kids with a BIG gift that doesn’t cost a fortune? This is it! These carboard houses inspire lots of imaginative play, especially the ones that the kids can paint and color themselves.

Duplos are a great introduction to building — they’re like Legos (in fact, they’re made by the same company), but just bigger so little toddler hands can work with them more easily. These are constantly being used at Laura’s house.

If you have a large tree in your yard, this is one of the most fun swings there is. It fits more than one child, goes high and spins.

These magnetic building blocks are so fun for kids! Shanna’s children enjoy building houses, towers and roads out of them.

These wooden blocks are fantastic quality and tick so many boxes! Creativity. Building. Fine motor skills. Good times. We love them!

This easel encourages creativity with its white board, chalkboard and paper holder.

This is a the perfect starter scooter for 2-5 year olds.

This monthly subscription service sends children’s board books or picture books to your child every month. Shanna’s kids received this as a gift, and she was impressed by the quality and selection of books!

Shanna’s girls love these chunky paint sticks for big art projects, like painting cardboard playouses.

Kids can color and decorate these adorable figurines, scrub them clean in the bathtub that comes with the set and then start all over again!

Want to surprise your kids with a BIG gift that doesn’t cost a fortune? This is it! These carboard houses inspire lots of imaginative play, especially the ones that the kids can paint and color themselves.

These play sets are so cute with all of their little people and set pieces, and there are so many sets to choose from. (They include lots of small pieces though, so they are not recommended for children under three.)

If you have a large tree in your yard, this is one of the most fun swings there is. It fits more than one child, goes high and spins.

If your kid has aged out of the Micro Mini scooter, it’s time for this bigger version!

A collection of hilarious and honest sketches from the author Lucy Knisley’s first year of parenthood. These will make you laugh out loud and feel seen!

Shanna and Laura both love the RIE method of parenting and have learned so much from this book. We always recommend it to new parents!

No one binges more TV than new parents!! Give them the gift of premium television!

by Angela Garbes. This book is an artful and compelling look at how caretaking can be a catalyst and basis for social change. By weaving together her own story with research, Garbes has written a refreshing ode to motherhood as important work.

by Abigail Tucker. This book is a fun and fact-filled read about how our bodies and minds change when we become mothers. If you’ve ever wondered if “mom brain” is real, this is the book for you!

The Echo Dot is perfect for new parents who are always busy with baby. Ask Alexa to play music, set timers, set alarms, adjust the air conditioner and more!

Cooooffffffeeeeeee. We consumed so much coffee as new parents. Make it quick and easy for new parents to get their caffeine fix with this espresso maker.

An innovative breastmilk-storage device, this specialized vaccum flask allows you to pump directly into it and store up to 34 ounces of breastmilk for up to 20 hours without refrigeration. And once you’re done breastfeeding, this can be converted into a normal thermos!

Laura recently got one of these super lightweight e-readers and she wishes she had gotten it sooner! Super convenient to have around, it allows you to read books and magazines with one hand and without stressing your wrist. And you can also read in low light while breastfeeding or while the baby is sleeping nearby. Perfect for new moms!

The Sonos speaker is an amazing quality speaker that works over wifi to play all your favorite songs. Pair it with Alexa, and you never have to use your hands to play music again!

by Lucy Knisley. This fantastic memoir is part graphic novel, part science and history lesson, and all heart. It follows the author’s TTC journey, including miscarriage and a traumatic childbirth, but never loses it’s ability to look at the world with a loving eye.

by Angela Garbes. A fantastic, refreshing read about the history and science of pregnancy, without the prescriptive judgments you’ll get from other pregnancy books. It’s like the emotional/narrative cousin to Expecting Better.

Maternity T-shirts can be a fun gift for someone who is expecting. We especially love this “My Baby Loves Tacos” shirt because… well, who doesn’t love tacos!? Scroll through the other maternity shirts at this link to find one that fits the vibe of the pregnant person in your life.

A subscription to Glo.com or any other online yoga studio that offers maternity yoga classes is a fun gift that can last an entire pregnancy! In addition to prenatal yoga, many studios also offer stretch, meditation, pilates classes and more that would be great during pregnancy. Glo also offers postnatal classes, so this could also be a wonderful gift for a new parent.

Trying to figure out how to dress your pregnant body can be tricky. Stitch Fix matches you with a stylist who will send you curated maternity options to try on, and you only buy what you like!

Give the gift of labor-and-delivery style with an adorable designer hospital gown. Regular hospital gowns are fine, but a bit drab, and a cute gown might be one of those small touches in the delivery and recovery room that makes the hospital stay more enjoyable. Shanna wishes she’d had one of these when she gave birth!

Pregnancy can cause aching feet. So gift the pregnant friend in your life some soft, comfy, memory-foam slippers to ease the pain! Shanna has these exact slippers and looooooves them.

Comfy from head to toe, and designed to be breastfeeding friendly, these maternity pajamas transition from pregnancy to new motherhood and are a great gift for you pregnant friend!

Say goodbye to old-school, stiff, plastic heating pads and hello to cushy, flexible ones that your pregnant friends will love cozying up with to relieve aches and pains. Making the transition to a high-quality heating pad was one of the best decisions Shanna has ever made (a close second to having children), and she was grateful to have it during pregnancy.

Laura loves this body oil during pregnancy. It smells really good, comes in a convenient spray bottle, and doesn’t leave a greasy feel. Great for trying to reduce stretch marks or just trying to feel pretty and normal during pregnancy!

Give the gift of comfort with a U-shaped pregnancy pillow. We love how comfy and cozy these pillows are and how they support pregnant bellies, backs, knees and hips.

A prenatal lactation consult is an amazing gift for an expecting parent who wishes to breastfeed. We recommend our friend Heather ONeal from The Milk Minute podcast, who does virtual visits that are easy to schedule online.

by Emily and Amelia Nagoski, twin sisters who have developed a really revolutionary way to look at stress and how to deal with it in your daily life. TTC and pregnancy are so stressful by nature, and this book gives the most practical, actionable tips of any book I’ve ever read. This book is life changing!

Scented candles can set the mood for babymaking! They can also create a sense of peace and calm, which can be helpful for those stressful TTC days.

If you’re TTC and finding it difficult to keep up the momentum, or you’re a new parent and it seems impossible to get in the mood, this book is for you! It’s a really fascinating look at the science of sex, from the co-author of Burnout.

Fertility apps can be very useful in tracking menstrual cycles, ovulation and more. The premium versions of these apps offer a wider variety of features and more in-depth data. A small luxury that someone TTC might not purchase for themselves.

This is what Laura wants for Christmas this year! A warm, oversized, super-comfy robe that zips up the front for easy breastfeeding access!

Send printed photos of the grandkids to your loved one with this easy-to-use subscription.

This adorable fill-in-the-blank book lets little ones answer questions about Grandma. There’s sure to be some hilarious and heartwarming answers. There is one for Grandpas too!

Grandparents will love having morning coffee with their grandchildren with a customized photo mug of your baby!

Customize a jigsaw puzzle with a photo of the grandkids for the puzzle-loving grandparents in your life!

This device makes video chatting with grandparents a breeze!

This pair of WiFi-enabled lamps allow you to show someone you’re thinking of them from anywhere in the world. When you tap on your lamp, it changes the color of your friend’s lamp as well! Great for grandparents to connect with young kids.

Capture the stories, memories and photos of a loved one and have them printed in a book with in this unique gift. Get $10 off your order for being a BFP listener by going to storyworth.com/bfp!

This digital frame allows your friends and family to send photos to a loved one for display in their hom. Use promo code POSITIVE for $15 off.

This fun and hilarious card game is a great small gift or stocking stuffer if your partner likes games!

These cool little devices can help you keep track of all your belongings, even if they’re miles away. This could be a great stocking stuffer for someone who is always losing their keys!

French press coffee is the best. It’s rich, full-bodied and delicous. If your partner is a coffee lover, they will love this!

Corey loves this brand, and wears these joggers all the time. They’re comfortable, but they also look good enough to wear out and about.

Pssst, Corey! This is what Laura wants for Christmas this year! Sometimes you just need a stick blender, you know?

A massage gun is a great way to soothe sore muscles and relax.

Shanna’s husband loves this virtual realtiy headset. It’s a fun way to immerse yourself in another world.

A massage gun is a great way to soothe sore muscles and relax.