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A roundup of Laura and Shanna’s weekly BFPs (Big Fat Positives), from their favorite maternity wedge to the best baby sunglasses — and everything in between!

Play Dates Gone Wild: Blood, Sweat and Tears – Ep. 357

May 5, 2025
  • Car Trash Can Shanna loves these car trash cans, which have helped her kids keep their vehicles cleaner.

Explaining Miscarriage and Rainbow Babies to Your Child – Ep. 356

April 28, 2025

The Best and Worst Parts of Parenting: Listener Q&A – Ep. 348

March 3, 2025

Viral Mom Memes and a Disastrous Kids’ Event – Ep. 344

February 3, 2025
  • Do You Really Know Your Family? This game is a hit with Shanna and her family. It elicits conversation and allows family members to get a peek inside each other's minds!

Sibling Roughhousing: How Much Is Too Much? – Ep. 342

January 20, 2025

Sharing the Mental Load as a Working Mom – Ep. 334

November 25, 2024
  • Mouse Trap Shanna and her girls had a blast playing this game!

Solving Bedtime Bedlam – Ep. 333

November 18, 2024
  • Sensory Body Sock Laura got these sensory body socks for her kids, and they love them. Better yet, they helped calm them down for bedtime.

What Is Skibidi Toilet? A Parent’s Guide to Gen Alpha Memes – Ep. 324

September 16, 2024

Having a Mom Meltdown in Public – Ep. 323

September 9, 2024

Parenting Sacrifices You Never Saw Coming – Ep. 313

July 1, 2024

When Your Child Suddenly Gets Clingy – Ep. 298

March 18, 2024

Handling Your Child’s Fear of the Dark – Ep. 293

February 12, 2024

Mom Hacks for Time Management and Car Clutter – Ep. 290

January 22, 2024
  • Car Cup Holder Trash Can Shanna accidentally discovered cup holder trash cans when they arrived in her new car. They are great, and you can put one in the back seat with your kids!
  • Visual Timer This visual timer is great for managing time with your kids.

Should You Have a Baby If You’re Not Thriving Financially? – Ep. 279

November 6, 2023

Helping Kids Overcome Fears (Halloween Edition) – Ep. 278

October 30, 2023

Feeling Judged as a Parent – Ep. 276

October 16, 2023
  • Bentgo Insulated Lunch Bag Laura had a great experience with Bentgo customer service, and is enjoying this insulated lunch bag that her kids use.

Mom Hacks for Pumping, Shopping and Bath Time – Ep. 273

September 25, 2023
  • Disposable pee bags Laura finds these disposable urinal bags very helpful with her kids when they are on the go.

Hawaii With Young Kids: Vacation Highs and Lows – Ep. 271

September 11, 2023
  • Stainless steel plates Laura loves these colorful stainless steel plates as an alternative to plastic and silicone plates for her kids.

Motherhood Lessons From the College Dorm (Plus an IEP Assessment) – Ep. 262

July 10, 2023

Finding Your Mom Village – Ep. 261

July 3, 2023

Dining Out With Young Kids: A Success Story – Ep. 251

April 24, 2023

Feeding Kids Without Food Fear: Virginia Sole-Smith (Part 2) – Ep. 249

April 10, 2023

Diet Culture and Parenting with Virginia Sole-Smith (Part 1) – Ep. 248

April 3, 2023

When Misunderstandings Trigger Kid Meltdowns – Ep. 245

March 13, 2023

Kids’ Birthday Party Highs, Lows and Sick-Week Chaos – Ep. 243

February 27, 2023
  • Head scratcher Auggie loves this head scratcher that Laura got him for Christmas.

Are Kids More Creative Than Adults? – Ep. 238

January 23, 2023

Surviving Baby’s First Week of Daycare – Ep. 224

October 17, 2022

Embracing Your Child’s Unexpected Talents – Ep. 222

October 3, 2022
  • First Orchard This fun, cooperative game is perfect for preschoolers!

Mom Hacks for Meltdowns, Marker Stains and More – Ep. 219

September 12, 2022
  • "You Loves Ewe" by Cece Bell. This is currently Elle's favorite book, and it's humor and silly wordplay has Shanna loving it too.

Pandemic Parenting Hangovers: The Stress That Lingers – Ep. 217

August 29, 2022
  • Slumber Pod Laura used one of these during her trip to Portland, and it was a lifesaver.

Should Kids Have to Share? With Parenting Coach Gia (Part 2) – Ep. 214

August 8, 2022
  • Sleep Button This is the recordable talking button Shanna used to make a "Sleep Button" for CeCe.

Fixing Toddler Sleep Troubles – Ep. 212

July 25, 2022

Deciding to Stay in Our Forever Home – Ep. 207

June 20, 2022
  • "The Very Impatient Caterpillar" by Ross Baruch. This book is Shanna's BFP this week. She and her girls love it for its silliness, funny characters and important life lesson.

Am I Crazy for Wanting Another Baby? – Ep. 206

June 13, 2022

Teaching Body Positivity to Your Kids – Ep. 205

June 6, 2022

Why Moms Need Alone Time: A First Solo Trip – Ep. 204

May 30, 2022

When Your Child Is Scared You’ll Die – Ep. 203

May 23, 2022

Mom Brain Is Real: Forgetfulness After Kids – Ep. 202

May 16, 2022

Reacting to Our First Episode Ever – Ep. 200

May 2, 2022

Mom Hacks for Kids’ Fears and Meltdowns – Ep. 198

April 18, 2022
  • Horusdy Water Pump Laura bought this affordable water pump to take her kids' water table to the next level!

Postpartum Depression and Anxiety: Laura’s Story – Ep. 196

April 4, 2022

Mom Rage: Why It Happens and What Helps – Ep. 194

March 21, 2022
  • The Book with No Pictures by BJ Novak. Laura's 3-year-old received this hilarious book for his birthday, and it's been a big hit!

Picky-Eater Worries and Starting Full-Week Preschool – Ep. 193

March 14, 2022
  • Rolling Art Cart Shanna's BFP this week is this awesome, multi-functional rolling cart that she used to organized her kids' art supplies.

Baby’s First Birthday – Ep. 192

March 7, 2022

Mom Wins: First Real Steps and a Birthday Comeback – Ep. 188

February 7, 2022
  • Kids' Scissors Shanna talks about Cece's obsession with cutting stuff. Here's the type of scissors she loves using!
  • Hydroflask Laura's favorite water bottle! Shanna loves it too and learns in this episode that topless is the way to go.

How to Donate Breast Milk – Ep. 187

January 31, 2022

Why Is My Kid Crying? – Ep. 186

January 24, 2022

Sex After Kids: How Much Is Normal? – Ep. 185

January 17, 2022
  • Smart Plugs Shanna and Laura love using smart plugs in their home to easily control lights and other devices.

2021 Year in Review: Challenges, Laughs and Surprises – Ep. 183

January 3, 2022

Talking to Kids About Death – Ep. 182

December 27, 2021
  • Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children by Bryan Mellonie and Robert Ingpen. Shanna highly recommends this book for introducing the idea of death to young children, and she used it to help talk about her family dog's recent passing.
  • The Invisible String by Patrice Karst and Joanne Lew-Vriethoff. Shanna also used this book to help talk to her kids about their dog's passing.

Good Advice About Toddler Tantrums – Ep. 181

December 20, 2021
  • Roshambo Sunglasses Laura loves these sunglasses for her kids. Use code ONEEYEDWILLY to get replacement lenses for free!
  • Small Command Hooks Shanna loves using these around the house to easily decorate for holidays.

Disneyland With Little Kids and Discipline Dilemmas – Ep. 175

November 8, 2021
  • Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Laura recommended this book to Shanna, who needs some sibling help with her two girls.
  • Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids by Laura Markham. Laura recommended this book to Shanna, who needs some sibling help with her two girls.

Tense Parenting Moments: A Head Injury and Charging Dogs – Ep. 174

November 1, 2021
  • Tooth Fairy Pillow Shanna's 5-year-old lost her first tooth, and Shanna gave this pillow to her daughter to prepare for the tooth fairy.
  • Tooth Fairy Coins Shanna used these as gifts from the Tooth Fairy.

Why Doesn’t My Baby Look Like Me? – Ep. 172

October 18, 2021
  • OK to Wake Clock Shanna got this sleep training clock for CeCe to help with early morning wake ups.

How to Handle Your Toddler’s “Why” Phase – Ep. 171

October 11, 2021

Our Favorite Kids’ Books – Ep. 169

September 27, 2021

Transitioning Your Toddler From Crib to Bed – Ep. 168

September 20, 2021

New Mom Survival Guide with Pediatrician Dr. Mona – Ep. 167

September 13, 2021
  • The Invisible String by Patrice Karst and Joanne Lew-Vriethoff. Laura loves this book and used it to help her son prepare for the separation of going to preschool for the first time.
  • The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn. Laura and her family love this sweet book, which they used to help her son prepare for the separation of going to preschool for the first time.
  • Preschool, Here I Come! by D.J. Steinberg and John Joven. Shanna loves this book, which she bought for her daughter to get ready for preschool.

Sleep Training and Night Weaning – Ep. 166

September 6, 2021

Ep 165: Bed Sharing with Kids and Babies

August 30, 2021
  • Hatch Baby Rest Laura uses this nightlight and sound machine in Auggie's room as a "time-to-rise" device that lets him know when it's rest time and when it's wake time. The best part is that you can control it from your phone!

Preschooler Covid and Vaccination While Pregnant: Q&A

August 27, 2021

Mom Hacks for Breastfeeding and Toddler Cooperation – Ep. 163

August 16, 2021

Second-Child Problems No One Warns You About – Ep. 161

August 2, 2021
  • Bodies are Cool by Tyler Feder. Shanna and her girls love this inclusive book about celebrating body differences.

Baby Reflux Flares and Nap Stress: Learning to Let Go – Ep. 158

July 12, 2021
  • Jumbo Moving Bags Laura bought these jumbo, heavy duty moving bags for her upcoming move, and they are strong, versatile and fantastic!
  • Prismacolor Colored Pencils These colored pencils have a soft core, so kids can easily use them to color light or dark. Shanna loves these and has replaced crayons and markers with these colored pencils in her house.
  • Battery Powered Electric Pencil Sharpener Shanna's kids love using a battery powered pencil sharpener to keep their colored pencils sharp!

Preparing Your Toddler for Preschool – Ep. 157

July 5, 2021
  • Cherry Pitter Shanna recently bought this cherry pitter, which has made prepping fresh cherries for her toddler much easier.

My Baby Has a Flat Head: What Now? – Ep. 154

June 14, 2021

Buying a House With a Baby and a Toddler in Tow – Ep. 151

May 24, 2021

Raising a Child With Autism: A Parent’s Perspective – Ep. 150

May 17, 2021

Newborn Sleep Wins: What Finally Worked – Ep. 147

April 26, 2021

Mom Hacks for Newborn Baths and Brushing Teeth – Ep. 146

April 19, 2021

The First Week Postpartum With Baby #2 – Ep. 140

March 8, 2021

Baby Kicks, Cervix Checks and Parenting Burnout – Ep. 137

February 15, 2021

Preparing for Your Second Baby – Ep. 135

February 1, 2021

Listener Q&A: Baby Names, Mom Guilt and Breastfeeding Tips

January 27, 2021

Unsolicited Advice and Toddler Parent Preference – Ep. 134

January 25, 2021

Parenting Decisions You Can’t Go Back On – Ep. 133

January 18, 2021
  • Fanny pack Laura loves wearing this fanny pack around the house.

What Happens During a C-Section – Ep. 132

January 11, 2021

Our Favorite Mom Hacks – Ep. 129

December 21, 2020
  • Glow Sticks Make bath time exciting by adding a handful of these glow sticks in the water and then turning off the light!
  • Mr. Bubble Foam Soap Shanna's girls love playing with this scented foam soap in the bath.
  • Art Trays Shanna loves using these trays to contain her daughters' art projects.

False Positive Pregnancy Tests: How They Happen – Ep. 128

December 14, 2020
  • "All the World" by Liz Garton Scanlon. A beautifully illustrated book that Laura and her toddler love.
  • Lego Duplo Building Blocks Shanna's toddler loves building with these adorable blocks that stimulated the imagination.

Helping Toddlers Through Big Feelings – Ep. 127

December 7, 2020

Weirdly Sexual Pregnancy Emails and the Glucose Test – Ep. 126

November 30, 2020
  • Wyze Camera Affordable wifi smart camera that's great for nurseries and kids' bedrooms.

The Pregnancy Nesting Instinct Is Real – Ep. 124

November 16, 2020

Dealing With Toddler Sleep Regression – Ep. 123

November 9, 2020
  • Sticker Book Cute, bright, fun stickers will entertain your little ones.

Should I Have a VBAC? – Ep. 122

November 2, 2020
  • Painter's Tape Use this to help make forts, art projects, kids' activities and more!

Parenting With Kindness, Even When It’s Hard – Ep. 121

October 26, 2020

Starting Potty Training: Oh Sh*t, It’s Potty Time – Ep. 120

October 19, 2020

Tips for Beating Pregnancy Reflux – Ep. 119

October 12, 2020
  • Karaoke Microphone Hear your kiddos belt Moana and Frozen on this wireless, bluetooth karaoke mic.

Cutting Toddler Screen Time, Plus “You Really Popped” Comments – Ep. 118

October 5, 2020

Toddler Independence: Terrific and Terrifying – Ep. 117

September 28, 2020

Plus-Size Pregnancy: What to Expect, with Jen McLellan – Ep. 116

September 21, 2020
  • Featherweight Reacher Never bend down to pick up a toy again!
  • Toddler Life Vest This lightweight life vest is coast guard approved.
  • Beach Tent On your next trip to the beach, you'll be made in the shade with this beach tent.
  • Beach Toys Your little one will have a creative day at the beach with these fun toys.

Why Is My Toddler Biting People? – Ep. 115

September 14, 2020

Pregnancy Scans, Toddler Manners and Mom Rage – Ep. 114

September 7, 2020

Letting Your Toddler Struggle to Learn – Ep. 113

August 31, 2020

Boy or Girl? Laura’s Gender Reveal – Ep. 112

August 24, 2020

Pregnancy Super Smell Is Real – Ep. 111

August 17, 2020

Trying to Conceive: Laura’s TTC Diary

August 13, 2020

Deciding to Have Another Baby – Ep. 110

August 10, 2020

Is My Toddler Getting Enough Exercise? – Ep. 109

August 3, 2020

Setting Limits With Toddlers (When It Feels Limitless) – Ep. 108

July 27, 2020

Toddler Separation Anxiety: Struggles and Snuggles – Ep. 107

July 20, 2020

Why Is My Toddler Screaming? – Ep. 106

July 13, 2020

Staying Calm in Chaos: A Meditation Expert’s Tips for Parents

July 9, 2020

Does Birth Order Influence Personality? – Ep. 104

June 29, 2020

Mom Instincts That Saved the Day (Plus Toddler Teething) – Ep. 103

June 22, 2020

Tips for Toddler Mealtime – Ep. 102

June 15, 2020

Treating Toddler Eczema, Plus Mom Confessions – Ep. 101

June 8, 2020

Our Husbands Tell All: Dads on Pregnancy and Parenting – Ep. 100

June 1, 2020

Early Pregnancy Memories: First Trimester Flashbacks – Ep. 99

May 25, 2020

Toddlers Are More Than Their Tantrums – Ep. 98

May 18, 2020

The Weirdest Things People Say to New Parents – Ep. 97

May 11, 2020

Dealing with Big Toddler Emotions – Ep. 96

May 4, 2020

When Should Toddlers Drop to One Nap? – Ep. 95

April 27, 2020

Toddler Talking Milestones (Plus Speedy Sperm Trivia) – Ep. 94

April 20, 2020

Listener Stories: Parenting Through Quarantine

April 10, 2020

Toddler Tantrum Tactics and Ninja Mom Moves – Ep. 92

April 6, 2020

Self-Care as a New Mom: Are We Failing? – Ep. 91

March 30, 2020

Toddler on the Move: Running, Climbing, Escaping – Ep. 90

March 23, 2020

Parenting in Early COVID: How We Coped

March 14, 2020

Why Is My Toddler Suddenly a Picky Eater? – Ep. 88

March 9, 2020

How to Wean From Breast, Bottle and Tracking Apps – Ep. 86

February 24, 2020

What Do Babies Dream About? – Ep. 85

February 17, 2020

When to Stop Pumping Breast Milk – Ep. 84

February 10, 2020

Planning Baby’s First Birthday Party – Ep. 83

February 3, 2020

Baby X-Rays, Flu Tests and Swallowed Objects – Ep. 82

January 27, 2020
  • VTech Roll & Surprise Animal Train Laura's baby loves this toy train where animals pop up and make noises.
  • Hola Ukelele This is the uke Laura's baby LOVED as a Christmas present.
  • Baby Leg Warmers Shanna loves these to help bridge the gap between pant sizes and help keep her toddler's legs warm while not compromising foot traction!

First Birthday Party Ideas and Convertible Car Seats – Ep. 80

January 13, 2020

Is Your Baby More Likely to Be a Boy or a Girl? – Ep. 79

January 6, 2020

What We Learned in Our First Year of Parenting – Ep. 78

December 30, 2019

Listener Q&A: Pregnancy and New-Mom Questions, Part 2

December 13, 2019

Surviving Baby’s First Cold – Ep. 74

December 2, 2019

How to Give Medicine to a Baby Who Refuses – Ep. 73

November 25, 2019

Breastfeeding Q&A with Lactation Consultant Jessica Claire – Ep. 72

November 18, 2019

Why Is My Breast Milk Blue? Plus Teething Troubles – Ep. 71

November 11, 2019

Is It Time to Hire a Babysitter? – Ep. 70

November 4, 2019

From Baby to Toddler: I’m Not Ready! – Ep. 69

October 28, 2019
  • NUK Mash and Serve Cool doohickey that allows you to create chunky purees for your baby when you're transitioning to finger foods.
  • Puffed Kamut Perfect rice-free alternative to baby puffs.

When Do You Drop the Dream Feed? – Ep. 67

October 14, 2019

Baby Modeling and Army Crawling – Ep. 66

October 7, 2019

How Much Does a Baby Cost in the First Year? – Ep. 65

September 30, 2019

Postpartum Anxiety: A Panic Attack at the Grocery Store – Ep. 64

September 23, 2019
  • The Mommy Hook Large carabiner clip for your stroller and to help carry all your crap while also carrying a baby.
  • The Zany Zoo Fantastic wooden toy that is great for babies learning to pull to stand.

What Is Gestational Surrogacy Like? With Surrogate Deanna Koelsch – Ep. 61

September 2, 2019

Baby’s First Tooth and Weird Infant Body Questions – Ep. 59

August 19, 2019

Baby’s First Cold, 6-Month Shots and Bad “Expert” Advice – Ep. 58

August 12, 2019

Earthquake Safety With a Baby: What Do You Do? – Ep. 57

August 5, 2019

Baby Slept Through the Night! Leap Clinginess and Nap Traps – Ep. 56

July 29, 2019
  • Aquaphor for Babies Shanna swears by this miracle product to prevent diaper rash, help dry skin, and basically just work like magic for her baby!
  • Taking Cara Babies This is Laura's sleep guru -- she posts great articles on her blog, and her baby-sleep courses are GREAT!

Laura Tries Sleep Training: What Happened – Ep. 55

July 22, 2019

Facebook Mom Groups, SIDS Advice and Bedsharing Debates – Ep. 54

July 15, 2019
  • Trader Joe's Mixed Nut Butter Almonds, Cashews, Walnuts, Brazil, Hazelnuts, & Pecans all in one jar, gets a ton of allergens out of the way quickly!

Moving Baby to Their Own Room – Ep. 53

July 8, 2019

Traveling With a Baby for the First Time – Ep. 52

July 1, 2019

When to Introduce Formula to Your Baby – Ep. 51

June 24, 2019

Sleep Training, Cry It Out and Baby Registry Must-Haves – Ep. 50

June 17, 2019

Hand Expressing Breast Milk and Night Crying Help – Ep. 49

June 10, 2019

Postpartum Insomnia: When Mom Can’t Sleep – Ep. 48

June 3, 2019

Sleep Regressions and Cognitive Leaps: Baby’s First Personality Quiz – Ep. 47

May 27, 2019

How to Calm a Crying Baby – Ep. 46

May 20, 2019

When Can You Start Your Baby on Solid Foods? – Ep. 45

May 13, 2019

Surviving the 4-Month Sleep Regression – Ep. 44

May 6, 2019

Sleep Training, Breastfeeding and Data With Emily Oster – Ep. 43

April 29, 2019

Double Uterus Facts and Weaning Off the SNOO – Ep. 42

April 22, 2019

Understanding Your Baby’s Development with Ayelet Marinovich – Ep. 39

April 1, 2019

Never Have I Ever: New Mom Edition – Ep. 38

March 25, 2019

Dream Feeds 101 and the Daycare Search – Ep. 37

March 18, 2019

The Magic of Breast Milk (a.k.a. Boob Juice) – Ep. 36

March 11, 2019
  • The Happy Sleeper The Science-Backed Guide to Helping Your Baby Get a Good Night's Sleep-Newborn to School Age

Newborn Genetics Questions with Pediatric Geneticist Susan Winter – Ep. 35

March 4, 2019
  • Rent the Runway Maternity styles and also super-pretty dresses for baby photo shoots at low rental prices!

Should I Co-Sleep With My Baby? – Ep. 34

February 25, 2019

Cute Aggression: Why Do I Want to Eat My Baby? – Ep. 33

February 18, 2019

Laura’s Breech Baby Birth Story (Week 39 & 4 Weeks Postpartum) – Ep. 32

February 11, 2019

Finding Your Parenting Philosophy (Week 38 & 3 Weeks Postpartum) – Ep. 31

February 4, 2019

Struggling to Breastfeed in the Early Weeks (Week 37 & 2 Weeks Postpartum) – Ep. 30

January 28, 2019

The Hard Parts of Pregnancy No One Mentions (Week 36 & 1 Week Postpartum) – Ep. 29

January 21, 2019

What Happens if Your Water Breaks? (Pregnancy Weeks 34 & 38) – Ep. 27

January 7, 2019

Drinking While Breastfeeding: What’s Safe? (Pregnancy Weeks 32 & 36) – Ep. 25

December 24, 2018

Is My Baby Moving Enough? Kick Counts (Pregnancy Weeks 30 & 34) – Ep. 23

December 10, 2018

Caffeine During Pregnancy: How Much Is Safe? (Pregnancy Weeks 25 & 29) – Ep. 18

November 5, 2018

Baby Shower or Baby Sprinkle? (Pregnancy Weeks 24 & 28) – Ep. 17

October 29, 2018

Tips for Trying to Conceive (Pregnancy Weeks 19 & 23) – Ep. 12

September 25, 2018

How to Decide if You Want Kids (Pregnancy Weeks 16 & 20) – Ep. 9

September 17, 2018