Big Fat Positive podcast episode 390: Holiday Q&A: Santa Logistics, Gifts and Sibling Jealousy

Holiday Q&A: Santa Logistics, Gifts and Sibling Jealousy – Ep. 390

December 22, 2025

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It’s Christmas week, and Shanna and Laura get festive answering listeners’ holiday-themed questions in the special segment “Checkin’ the Inbox!” They answer questions about handling the logistics of Santa, managing sibling jealousy during the gift-giving season, whether to do Elf on the Shelf and more! During the check-in, they share their families’ plans for the holiday and discuss their gift ideas for their kids, their husbands (and each other!). In the special segment “Checkin’ the Inbox: Holiday Q&A,” Laura and Shanna. Finally, they share their BFPs or BFNs for the week. Shanna’s kids are 6.5 and 9.5 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4.5 years old.

 

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Navigating holiday overwhelm while juggling work, parenting and year-end transitions
  • Should I keep Christmas plans low-key and realistic or go all-out?
  • Holiday activities that help kids burn energy (and parents stay sane)
  • Navigating the mental load of gift-giving and holiday expectations
  • How kids’ interests change faster than we can shop
  • Whether or not to exchange gifts with other adults
  • The pressure to give “perfect” gifts vs. embracing simpler ones
  • Family traditions we carried over from childhood – and new ones we’re creating now
  • Holiday light displays as a new seasonal tradition
  • Elf on the Shelf: love it, hate it, or skip it entirely
  • How different families handle Santa
  • Big gifts vs. small gifts (and who should get the credit)
  • Fairness, siblings and navigating different ages during the holidays
  • Deciding which holiday expectations are actually worth the effort
  • Blending holiday traditions from different backgrounds
  • Finding ways to make the season feel special without overdoing it

 

Products, links, and resources mentioned in this episode:

–Tiny Chef

–Descanso Gardens Enchanted Forest of Lights

–LA Zoo Lights: Animals Aglow

–5 Nights at Freddy’s Costume

–Harry Potter Legos

–Kids Pottery Wheel

–Labubu

–Menorahs at Target

–The Boar’s Head Carol

–The Alex Theater

 

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:

–Ep. 343 – (Where Shanna talks about giving her kids a trampoline for Christmas)

 

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